Give couples a thoughtful, pastor-led preparation process without pretending pastoral care is therapy or legal advice. This 15-page toolkit includes six 60-75 minute sessions, leader notes, couple worksheets, a first-year support plan, and clear prompts for when qualified outside help is needed.
What is included
- Leader preparation and pastoral-boundary guide
- Six guided sessions: covenant, communication, money, family, intimacy, and first-year practices
- Six printable couple worksheets
- Conversation prompts and practical next steps
- First-year covenant and support plan
- Referral prompts for concerns beyond pastoral care
Designed for pastors and trained church leaders serving engaged couples in small and rural churches.
Related pastoral resources
Browse the Marriage & Family resources catalog for complementary small-church tools. This toolkit is pastoral preparation material; use qualified clinical, legal, medical, or safeguarding help when a concern exceeds the church leader’s role.
After the premarital process, couples can continue with Building a Christ-Centered Marriage, Communication in Marriage, and Conflict Resolution for Christian Couples. These free guides are for ongoing marriage formation; the toolkit itself is for engaged-couple preparation.

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